In this video I’m going to share 8 signs he's using dating mind games to manipulate you. If your man is playing mind games or head games with you, I’ll tell you exactly how to handle them and turn things around.
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When I refer to dating mind games, I'm talking about calculated behaviors that one or both partners use to manipulate, intimidate, or undermine their partners behaviors and causer them to question their own perceptions. In intimate relationships, Mind games are used by people who have learned how to push other people’s buttons and pick up on subtle emotional signals in order to manipulate them. These games involve twisting the facts and creating doubt to destabilize another person. mind games are also used by insecure partners who wish to change the direction and experience of a relationship. For example, a person who doesn't feel they are getting enough attention from their partner, might engage in some manipulative behavior in hopes of creating doubt, fear, or jealousy in the relationship and get the attention back on themselves.
Other times, manipulations are used by abusive partners who aim to break down and control their partner. So people use them to gain, preserve, or acquire more control over another person.
And if their game can elicit a particular response from you, or move you to do what they want, then they gain the powerful feeling they are looking for and feel in control of you and the situation.
So People play games to get their way, to push their partner to “prove their love,” and other unhealthy practices. And Mind games are dangerous because they can Lead to Unhealthy or toxic Relationships, on the mild end and emotional abuse and control on the extreme end. Not only will you have to break away from this relationship, but it will make getting into a new, healthy, relationship more difficult. Remember, if the start of a relationship is unhealthy or toxic, it's only going down hill from there. It sets a poor precedent for being together and can only lead to worse situations.
So, How do you know if your partner is playing mind games with you – how do you know if you're being played? The tricky part of recognizing mind games in a relationship is that when you’re emotionally involved, It’s difficult to be objective and see what’s really happening. Especially when you’re in the middle of it and feeling in love. That’s why it’s so important to have an objective perspective of your love life, whether that’s through the help of a professional counselor, a wise loved one, or a relationship coach or mentor. it helps to get validation and recognize that these are mind games and that you aren’t going crazy.
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