Get ready with me and hear ya girl talk all about independence and boundaries. Am I too independent? How did I gain independence? I’ve learned that if you have passion, you’ll figure out a way to make things work both dependently and independently. Do you boos think depending on one another in a relationship is a bad thing or a good thing? Let me know in the comments boos!
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"What would happen if I shamelessly promoted myself for 365 days?" My channel started out as a social media experiment and now it's a lifestyle. I hope my journey from shame to shameless inspires you and others to not be ashamed of who you are and to share and celebrate that shamelessly. Here on my channel, you'll find videos on lifestyle, inspiration, fun transformations, techie vids for aspiring geeks, beauty, fashion, and so much more.
Seeing my mom having a pretty loveless marriage growing up, and then seeing her growth and just blossoming transition once she got divorced have me def think why you need a man by your side anyways if that man is just going to drain you? So yeah, today we as women dont need a man for financial stability, so a man better bring something extra to a relationship, still waiting for that someone though :P
I have been married for 13 years. my hubby works and pays all the bills, and we go over all our finances. I am a stay-at-home mom of 3 kids and the dog. I take good care of the home and everyone's schedule. I am at a point in my life where I need to do something for myself, my kids are in school and I now can go to school or work. I have no regrets.
at 10:52 i was wondering were your look was going lol but it came out great!! as for independence I depend on my boyfriend to cook dinner almost every night because im cleaning and watching the baby. However i don't need him to do it i know how, he likes doing it and i hate it lol bottom line if you need to be dependent on a person for any reason that's not healthy in my opinion but if both of you can take care of your own and rely on each other for help in certain departments that's fine. Also in you are dependent on a person at the moment you don't need to feel bad about it we have all been there but you should be working on yourself so that you don't need them in future.
Don't know how I missed this video. I've ALWAYS been super independent. I've been in a relationship for over 5 years now. It took so much for me to step back and actually be dependent on another person. Then I became disabled and I had do choice. Thank God that this man is as amazing as he is. As of 9-1-17, he is now my fiancé 😍😍
I just watched your Fenty beauty review and based on your critiques I wanted to come and check out how you prefer to do your makeup regularly to see what you were comparing the look to, because I thought you looked stunning. After seeing this look I'm literally shocked at some of the comments you made, I think you should watch this video next to that one and then try to compair the two looks objectively.
Well in my honest opinion depending on someone when you're in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with is I guess bad in a way unless you rarely do so. It's good to support one another, as long as it's give and take. Though unless you're married, being dependent on someone can be a bit troubling.
You are the best and help me so much! I definitely have been working on my channel on my own to help others and as bad as I want a team, that's how driven I am to keep upload self-care and positive videos instead of waiting for convenience. You've been my inspiration for your whole YT journey Maya!
I my possibly be your oldest follower, but I see you as someone although younger who is in touch with the world and brutally honest. I admire that, and I do recommend younger folks trying to find their way to watch you videos. Especially creatives.Yes I may be a bit "out of touch", but I recognize that you are brilliant. Keep doing what you doing, baby boomer are watching. God bless
I love this segment!!!! I love you so much boo!!! 2013 I got out of a toxic relationship and in 2014 and 2015 I was going wild and I thought I was doing me but it was not healthy. In 2016 I was picking up the pieces of my bad decisions and now I am focusing on me all day lol. I love you boo. Thank you for inspiring me all day.
i'm surprised your channel isn't bigger as you really do know how to give out strong messages and the audience can really relate to you ! having a post 25 yr old crisis myself (I am 26), I am so glad I fell on your channel! thank you so much! Love <3
I think it's good to depend on each other bc when you're in a relationship you want to have a balance of receiving when the other person whats to give and be able to give. I have a hard time with my boyfriend when it comes to him helping me and me helping him. We try to take care of each other but don't let the other person give us their help if that makes sense. So balance is good but never let yourself be so dependent to the point where you are lost if the relationship ends up not working out.
Lmao at "I use to break SHIIIIAT"!!! This video is so awesome and much needed. I just got married in March and immediately moved to an entire new state with my husband. Legit felt like all of my independence I worked so hard for had just been taken---BUT I had to realize and still realizing that was not the case. It's okay to depend but set limits to that dependence. I choose to depend on you for certain things but if need be, I can do it. I support you but I have to support me first and foremost. I feel like it takes time to know the boundaries and limitations to dependence. Trial and error, too.
I think having a partner you CAN depend on when you need it and being open to their help when it is truly helpful is healthy. Having a partner that gives you support in a unique way is enriching, but there needs to be a balance there. And I also think it helps to have at least 2 ppl in your life that you can get specific types of support from. Aside from that, work toward being your own best friend too.
I heard this message regarding relationships once that stuck with me. In emotional development there are three stages that humans generally go through. The first is dependence - the illustration here was a baby and its parent. As a baby, the child relies on the parent for everything because the parent's care is essential to its survival. Eventually that baby grows older and reaches the second stage - independence. The child starts wanting to exert autonomy over its choices - dressing and feeding him/herself, walking, and not always complying with what he or she has been asked to do. The third and final stage is interdependence, illustrated as two adults that are considering marriage. Neither can rely on the other to fill their every need, as that is unhealthy dependence, and neither can rely on him/herself to fill every need, as independence is wonderful but a relationship requires a joining of two people. Interdependence is two healthy, complete, emotionally mature people who could easily be independent but choose to sacrifice some of their personal preferences and freedoms for the sake of the other. The pastor (Paul Sheppard) gave a second illustration for this one based on the verse that says we should not be unequally yoked. Imagine two oxen are yoked together but one is always pulling the other one along, doing all the work because the other is not as strong (dependence) - both oxen will only go in circles. If they are more concerned about going their own way than walking together (independence) they won't make any progress at all. They must be two disparate, competent beings of equal strength with shared goals (interdependence) that actively choose to walk together.
Interdependence is key. Humans are not independent creatures - we thrive in a social circle, and healthy interdependence is a great goal in a relationship, where you can support each other when necessary. ;)
6:57 So true. This year i have decided that i will do something with my YouTube channel. I truly have passion towards art and filming/editing. And let MY MESSAGE HEAR THE WORLD! Last 4 years i did work only to have money and be more independent. And not to ask for it. I live with my parents but i feel even that can change. Im at the very begin, but as i took the first step it feels so good. Im more inspired than the 4 years in total. I believe i will connect people, that is my main goal when walking this road. Knowing that i would have struggles, people will try to demotivate me, yes they are, at my nearest. But hey, I trust in myself and God. And since the beginning He is with me. Only He.
Yeesssss Maya say it girl. I said the same thing. Even though my last breakup was due to the actions of my ex, I played a part in that relationship and there was something for me to learn. I took a break and worked on the way I communicated my anger because like you I used to yell and break shit and I no longer do that
Depending on people can be a good and bad thing depending on the person you're depending on. 🤗☺️. I'm very dependent on my parents and watching your videos made me want to be independent but I have no job and I'm currently in college and I try to get a job but I get rejected and sometimes it's just fear 😨😭😭. Sometimes it's a religious/cultural restriction 😓
So does this mean you've changed your views on marriage? Just curious since you mentioned it a few times as if it's a possibility for you and I know it your video with Fran you said you didn't believe in marriage. Either way I admire how you are so true to yourself and so helpful to others and I adore your channel I'm just interested in if your view has changed
You so funny! I definitely think interdependence is a good thing. Your absolutely right, marriage was out of necessity back in the day. I totally agree - you can't lose yourself in the relationship- you should have your own purpose and passions aside from your spouse. It seems that makes a relationship great! I love your journey!!!! I can so resonate with it! BTW: I'll be starting my motivational speaking business soon! What defines success. I luv your channel, thank you! You're fabulous!
So I'm in a relationship where my partner and I share life's burdens and a unit, because both have areas of strength and areas of weakness. Some of our friends call us a true Ying Yang. The interdependence makes us stronger as well as provides us with more growth opportunities.
BUT IT'S HAAAAAAARD (to start where I am) I'm a Makeup Artist based in Montréal,Québec, and is not that easy. I'm looking to work in makeup, but don't find nothing so I work as a retailer because I still need money...And when I find a job for one day I can't get replace at work...LIKE :(
And I have a YouTube channel about makeup and hair, but I work full time and don't have time or energy to keep going.
But thank you for your video I'm gonna kick my own ass a little more xx
I Haven't Been on youtube in maybe a couple of months. Today, I finally had the time to sit down and log on. I really feel like this video spoke personally to me . you know when god wants to communicate with you, he will find anyway to make his communications clear... I felt like you were used to communicate us... if that makes sense. I've been making excuses why I can't launch my business, why I can't step out my comfort zone.... I don't have this I need that blah blah blah... if I'm really passionate about my craft left it sail. have faith and be passionate about your craft and let it sail... the tools will come.
Maya , you look like a ghost at 9:26 lol. This was a great video. I like listening to Heather Lindsey. She talks a lot about relationships. I think our first person to depend on is God, not ourselves or anyone else,but Him. Let's keep Him first. Then we should depend on our spouse because after all, if you guys are married, then they become your helpmate. They are to just come along and help you work out your purpose. So I think it's fine to depend on your spouse for support as long as you're depending on God first and not man.
As an actor, I don't even hear "no". I hear NOTHING. I'll submitsubmitsubmit and not hear back at all. I can't even remember the last time I went out for an audition. I'm trying my best to stay strong, but it is toooough! I started creating my own content. I made a short film & let me tell ya, it was a LEARNING experience. I'm not gonna give up, because I want to be an actor so bad. I've always been an independent person, but when it comes to my career, I'm still learning to channel my independence through that. In this industry, it's easy to feel helpless.
You are the best Maya! Thank you for this video, I was definitly needing to hear your wisdom girllll!! :D answering your question I think it's just a matter of balance. It can be positive to depend (regarding your feelings, and not your money) on someone if we talk about a healthy and true relationship. Having someone that you can trust and someone that you know has your back its an amazing feeling. So maybe you can depend somehow on that person. But this is a deep issue that has so many diferent prespectives..
There is no such thing. What it does mean is that you need to eliminate the "weak" who can't handle your strength. Fragile egos are always blabbering about someone being too independent. Just tell them to HUSH!
Hello Maya ....Single and not dating"over 4 years" here....I like not being told what to do and enjoying my independence ...my ex husband of over 21 years,controlled me way too much and I was his slave basically.🙄I didn't get anything back from him,he did only what was expected and nothing more.I allowed myself to be treated like that too,so I'm to blame also.I guess I am so scared of being in a toxic relationship again,that I'd rather be alone and I'm not looking anyways.Maybe I will be forever single?Idk?Like you said also ...you have to work on you first,and I am still a work in progress.Great videos,thank you ❤💪🏻✌🏻👑💄I enjoy every one.
Shameless Maya thank you so much for the reply back Maya.Yes,so true ...All you said.I am happy single,I guess,for now.When I see people with drama and too much of it,in a relationship...it definitely gets me to think,no thank you.lol😃😄Keeping men at a distance is best for me,given how men are today .Maybe one day God will bring me a man worthy of putting up with my bull💩👈🏻🤓And that will raise me up,not bring me down .🙏🙏👍🏻✌🏻💖Have a great week.
GIRLLLL!!!! I feel you on this one. I did as much work as I could on myself but ultimately we also learn about who we are through our relationship and interaction with others. I thought I worked out all my ish until I got serious with my boyfriend. I haven't but he's been so awesome and has been helping me through it. Your life is whatever you believe it to be. If you believe and want to be single forever then you will and can. But if you believe and want to be in a healthy relationship then you will and can. You just need to believe and put in the work.
Love Love your videos. U Beautiful and yes its coming 1 million girl. I remember I found your channel when you cut all your hair off. Been a die heart fan since then. My inspiration thanks for always being positive no matter what n Be U and stay Beautiful. 🤗😍💗💚💖
Learning how to draw cartoon animals from the farm is not such a difficult task! Weve grown up surrounded by them! Farm animals are everywhere: In blockbuster movies, childs books, greeting cards. their shapes and images are printed in our minds!
In this section, I will show you how to determine what are the physical uniqueness of each animal and how to work with them. Then, you can practice drawing each cartoon character using basic shapes.
You will have the opportunity to make nice illustrations, practice sketching and cartooning using short easy lessons and complete your creation using a drawing software to create vector art if you want to! Cartoon drawing is really fun once you get into it!
Dont be afraid to try until you get it right. This method is really simple, but requires practice and observation. So, sit back and relax. Learn how to draw animals from the farm and start your journey on a good note!
Lets try s few basic characters to get started! :)
A cute turkey to begin with.
In this first tutorial, you can learn how to draw a fun turkey mostly made from small rectangles and large circular shapes. The posture of the character is really interesting. Not only is it easier to draw than a front version, but its also easier to add some perspective (as we can see with the legs). The fact that we just need to draw one wing is also interesting.
Most of these cartoon animals are not filled with complex textures or digital effects. In this case, the subject is filled with plain colors and only a few basic details (inside the tail) were added.
A nice turtle also from a side view.